Showing posts with label Oral Method. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Oral Method. Show all posts

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Marin Society for Crippled Children

When I was in high school I spent two summers volunteering in a recreation program for kids with disabilities run by the Marin Society for Crippled Children. One year it was held at Arequipa, which had formerly been a sanitarium for women with tuberculosis, and the other year the program was held at a school.
Most of the children attending had some sort of physical disability that required the use of crutches or wheelchairs. Some had become crippled (Yes, I know that term isn't considered acceptable now, but it was then) as a result of the polio epidemic that had killed my father. But there were two children who didn't fit in with the others because their disabilities were different and the second summer I spent most of my time with them.
One little boy did use a wheelchair, but he was also blind and had such severe brain injuries he could barely communicate. His condition was caused by falling out of a moving car when the door swung open. That was before seat belts existed.
The other little boy was physically active and deaf. He was obviously extremely smart. He loved to watch the TV show, Zorro and had learned to communicate with the gestures Zorro's mute servant used in the show. He was able to tell us almost anything he wanted, and to understand the gestures I and the other volunteers used with him. He was interested in nature and would ask us about the bugs and birds, but we couldn't communicate all he wanted to know.
At that time the Oral Method was still used in schools and deaf kids were forbidden to use gestures at all because it was thought that would motivate them to talk and read lips. At the end of the summer when the boy's parents found out he had been using gestures to communicate with us he was forbidden ever to watch Zorro again.
Years later I met someone who had worked with that boy when he was older and learned that he had been considered mentally retarded (another term no longer used) by the school district. If only he had been permitted to learn and communicate using American Sign Language he would probably have done well in school.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Gladys, A Deaf Child Who Changed My Life

I posted this information long ago, but it's relevant to my recent posts about my own experience with Special Needs, so I'll share it here again with a few changes.
While in the Babcock Unit at the Stanford Convalescent Home I met a very cute little girl with big blue eyes and curly hair. Her name was Gladys, but I never heard her last name. The other new kids who had been there longer would grab my arm and pull me away when I approached the child, shouting, "Don't talk to her! She's Deaf!"
But Gladys and I communicated using facial expressions and gestures. Once she woke everyone up early by turning on all the lights. The nurses said, "She doesn't know any better," but Gladys let me know she did know she might get in trouble and I assured her I wouldn't tell anyone. Another time she asked me why she had no fingers on one hand and I told her I had no idea. (Back then the Oral Method was used in schools for deaf children and Sign Language was discouraged.)
The nurses told me her parents had brought her to the facility when she was six months old and they found out she was deaf and were never heard from again. How could anyone reject such a darling child?
I only knew Gladys for one week, but she changed my life completely. Because of her I volunteered with special needs kids while I was in High School, learned American Sign Language, went to work at California School for the Deaf, married a Sign Language interpreter, and raised three deaf foster sons.
I wish I could find out what happened to that little girl.